Are there really men who "have sex multiple times a night"?
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Recently my friends and I discussed the topic of "sex". One friend told me her "worries": He has to have sex with me every day, many times a day, I really can't take it anymore!
(What?!)
So, "He must have sex with me every day, many times a day" immediately became the focus of everyone's curiosity.
In other words, does such a man really exist?
The species are all the same, don't men have different "factory settings"?
So, "He must have sex with me every day, many times a day" immediately became the focus of everyone's curiosity.
In other words, does such a man really exist?
The species are all the same, don't men have different "factory settings"?
01 Are the "factory settings" the same for men?
The answer is: the same!
When a normal man has sex, the penis changes and the reflex effect of orgasm - ejaculation - is the same.
When a man is impulsive and excited, the erection process actually consists in the fact that the blood flow into the penis greatly exceeds the return flow, resulting in a large accumulation of blood in the cavernous body and increased pressure. The blood-filled cavernous body supports the penis and makes it hard and erect. The extension is similar to the principle of blowing a balloon.
After the penis is in close contact with the female vagina, it grows up and becomes dark red. After a period of hard work, the ejaculation reflex occurs when it reaches the climax. The burning sensation is intermittent and the interval is less than 1 second. With the burning sensation, slight muscle twitches occur, and heart rate, breathing and blood pressure reach peak values.
After starting, the various physiological changes of the male body will quickly recover: the penis will shrink greatly, the Y-scrotum will also return to a normal state and enter the refractory period. At this time, the excitability of the body and mind will disappear, the so-called sage period.
Although each man's length, diameter, shape, etc. may be slightly different, the "factory settings" and functions are generally the same, and the average level is basically "effective".
02 Is there "a man who has sex many times in one night"?
The answer is: They exist! But there are only a few, the best in the world.
First, how is the frequency calculated?
The frequency mentioned in "A Man Having Sex Many Times in One Night" is based on male ejaculation after achieving orgasm.
Of course, this is measured by the relatively good interactive experience of the two. Even if the man who shoots in seconds has sex dozens of times a night, this should only make girls melancholy, right?
In fact, if the sexual needs are strong, any normal man can have several times.
When you try sex for the first time, when you reunite with someone you like for a long time, when you are newly married, you have a strong sexual demand and it is OK to have sex several times a night. For example, we think something is very delicious and want to eat more; when we are hungry for a long time, we want to eat more. These are all normal.
But sex requires really good physical strength, after all, the waist has to be constantly moved
If you are young, you may be able to regain your fighting power more quickly, or if you have strong desires and a particularly good appetite, it is normal to increase the number occasionally.
However, based on the initial settings of the male species, men experience a refractory period after sex, which lasts about 20 minutes to 1 hour , and some people even last up to a day. During this period, the function cannot be activated normally. In fact, this corresponds to a temporary protective program opened by the body. Within this time frame, the physiological needs and the body are not suitable for continued sex and there is no pleasure.
99% of men who can have sex again quickly are young men, and these young men are under 25 years old. Emmm, it seems that young men have been more popular than uncles in recent years. It's not without reason...
So this is not the norm, it only happens at a certain stage or in a certain situation. In real life, there are very few men who routinely last multiple times a night.
What are the characteristics of these “rare animals”?
Studies have shown that testosterone hormone has an important influence on "sex". Without testosterone hormone, sperm cannot be produced. This reduction in hormones can cause problems with sexual function, such as reduced desire, erectile dysfunction, etc.
Therefore, the testosterone hormone levels of men who can have continuous sex must generally meet the standard.
However, in addition to hormone levels, the ability of "sex" is more related to the overall quality of the body, such as muscle endurance and psychological and lifestyle habits. Therefore, students who plan to replenish the testosterone hormone may give up, and if the supplement exceeds the standard, it will not become strong immediately. Really want to exercise sexual abilities, exercise Kegel, find out.
In life, most of the uninterrupted sex is not normal. Normal boys want to achieve such success, it just can be more difficult. Some boys even take drugs to achieve such effects.
However, the real situation is that if the sexual desires of boys continue to exceed those of normal people and even cause the discomfort or resistance of girls, but they still cannot be satisfied or need to masturbate several times a day, otherwise they easily become emotionally unstable and uncomfortable, and in some cases may even experience symptoms of insanity due to anxiety and irritability, in this case it is necessary to check whether the boy is suffering from hypersexuality.
Having sex with the person you like is especially nice. When excessive demand affects the emotions and daily life of you and your partner, it is more than worth it.
03 Is “continuous sex” really pleasant?
The answer is: not necessarily!
When boys have sex continuously, the amount of semen becomes less and less each time they ejaculate, and even at the end they do not ejaculate but flow out. And the most important point for boys is that the pleasure that comes with ejaculation is directly related to the amount of semen released. The greater the volume of semen, the stronger the rhythmic and repeated contraction of the urethral sphincter and the stronger the pleasure.
The male orgasm cannot be accumulated and is buffered from 0 each time.
That's why many men complain: the last moment of sex depends entirely on willpower.
This type of physical condition is just the opposite of that of women. Girls' orgasms can be accumulated and they can have continuous orgasms, but they are also based on a very good base each time.
In fact, girls' pursuit of frequency is not as urgent as that of boys. Many men are misled by film and television works and blindly pursue the number and duration of time, thinking that this is the best expression of sexual ability. Don't forget that film and television works can be edited, not one-time... The duration and frequency of sex can be completed through step-by-step filming and editing, and you can even add special effects.
Excessive continuous stimulation can easily cause damage to the reproductive organs and if this continues, it will lead to an early decline in the sexual function of men.
According to feedback from many male compatriots, after too much sex, in addition to the pain that later accompanies "ejaculation", the water flow will split after going to the toilet.
(Emmm, is that right?)
During lovemaking, both men and women will consume more physical strength, and the water loss will be more serious, which can easily lead to dehydration. This requires a certain period of rest and recovery. If the frequency is not well controlled, it is prone to physical weakness and mental fatigue. A long time will inevitably lead to a deterioration in physical fitness. Girls who have sex many times in a short period of time can easily cause injury to the vulva and vagina when excited, and induce various inflammations of the vagina, cervix and pelvis.
Therefore, the frequency of sex is based on the feeling of goodness of both parties, and the more often it is not good for boys and girls. It is based on the good feelings of both parties. No matter how often it is, it is convenient. There is no need to keep track of the times, but if only one person thinks the experience is good, it is really better to finish the laundry and go to sleep earlier.
[ Whispers to men ]
Here I really want to tell the boys that girls really don't care about the size and frequency, so don't blindly pursue the frequency. Google data shows that women's search frequency for men's height is only about 1/170 of the frequency of men themselves, and 40% of women's searches complain that the size is too big and not too small, including the frequency. This is also true. You think too much.
[ Tips for women ]
I hope that women also understand their partners . They really care about their time, frequency, height, etc. unconsciously. This is because they don't understand girls enough and they lack self-confidence. Usually we can encourage our partner a little more and not worry or say bad words to each other because the performance is one and a half times bad. In this regard, boys are really vulnerable . More understanding and communication, try to be tolerant when he says he is not tall or not good.
04 High quality sex
For a normal sex life, 1-2 times a night is the most frequent. Do not blindly follow the number or use the number as a standard.
Compared to frequency, most girls pay more attention to foreplay
Many girls want to reach the tipping point of orgasm during foreplay and even hope to reach orgasm before they enter. Many women also report that a vaginal orgasm is easier to achieve after foreplay.
Women have a lot of body sensitivity, but they are also particularly easily distracted. They need more foreplay to relax, get rid of distracting thoughts, enter the state and focus on sex itself.
Quality sex, the frequency of which is not a measure of the standard, the acquisition of an orgasm due to love is an exponential growth.
As long as the two parties have no selfish thoughts, are fully involved in the process, and can enjoy each other's love and get a satisfactory sense of pleasure, it is a pleasant, high-quality sex.
When two people are deeply loving,
" Follow you where to go, what to do, everything is fine."
Maybe a warm hug can make you melt, and a sweet kiss can soften you too.
Don't let the good times go to waste, have the ultimate sex experience!